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In situations where people who are monogamous say ‘O.k., we’ll be able to work it out’ and their partner alludes to ‘I know what you’re saying, but I’m going to start seeing other people anyway,’ they typically do not succeed.” For those who present with a willingness to try open relating, their reasons vary but may often include incompatible sex drives.
Menzise says he has seen many situations where one partner feels inadequate in a sense of not being experienced enough or not lasting long enough such as with a wife who may have a higher sex drive.
To Seku, “Traditional relating is just not matching up. Some men look elsewhere in order to feel like they’re not dying.
They want to reproduce what they felt when they first met their wife.
May I suggest that the DWM who approach those of us who are Dating While Single (DWS), try something as simple as honesty?
Do you feel like you’re adequate–doing everything you can, carrying the weight where you feel your partner’s satisfied with you?
” There are of course the ménage à trois scenarios as opposed to dating a number of people.
“I’ve come to find out a LOT of women are open to being with another woman and having fantasies about another woman,” says Menzise of the marital threesomes.
But some guys feel they’re providing more pleasure.
And seeing someone else pleasuring provides security.” Seku presents progressive love as being the way to security.